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Saturday, May 25, 2013

It’s More Than Adios…

Well, it seems I always have an excuse why I haven’t been updating my blog…and it’s normally the same excuse…a crazy, busy life, and lack of internet.  So many things have happened, but here’s the basics.  I’ll be home soon, so you can always ask for more details!

These past few weeks we’ve been busy at the school re-doing a lot of our procedures.  Things were just not working the way we had hoped, and thanks to some amazing new friends that gave us a lot of great ideas, we came up with new rules and procedures.  The kids are adapting really well so far!  We just finished up for the summer and most of the kids did amazingly well in my class.  Some kids really surprised me!  It amazes me to see how far the kids have come.  I think back to the first week last year when I realized that many of the kids didn’t even know their colors in Spanish.  It definitely provided a challenge!  My oldest group now knows about 40 verbs, past, present, and future tenses, everyday objects, and so much more!  They’ve made me extremely proud to say the least!

It’s also been a huge change to have our own classroom walls!  My room now has a ton of colorful posters hanging up!  Unfortunately they keep falling down because of the crappy sticky tack.  But it’s so much less distracting for the students and even for me when we can’t see the other classes!  We even got doors put in, so that helps even more!  Once we get the money for a ceiling, it will be even better because the noise level will also go down.  The guys also got my board hung back up, so I finally have a “normal” classroom!  Who knew one could be so thankful for walls!  A huge thanks to everyone who has helped us get this far!

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One day, Jen and I went down to the batey to get Jony, one of the school students.  The plan was for him to sleep at our house and then Shawn and Jen were going to take him to the capitol very early the next day so that he could get testing on his head from when he passed out.  But first, we had to find him!  Unfortunately, not even his mother knew where he was, so we waited a little bit at his house.  Every time I visit there, it reminds me how much I have and I feel blessed, but also ashamed at how much I take things for granted.  Think about water for example:  In the US, I rarely ever think about how much water I use, unless we’re in a severe drought…which barely ever happens.  Or of course when dad yells at us for taking too long of showers!  Living here in the DR, I know what it’s been like to not have water…and of course we complain about feeling dirty, with no way to shower, wash clothes or dishes, or anything.  But we have no idea what it’s like to literally have almost no water ALL THE TIME.  I watched Jony’s grandmother washing clothes in a bucket of water that looked like she had taken a small shovelful of dirt and mixed it up in the water and then started washing clothes.  How fortunate we are to have so much water!  I love that God uses something like that to reset my thinking and to realize how He has provided for me over and over.  Don’t forget to give thanks for even the little things in your life.  Don’t take anything for granted!

As I was talking to Jony’s mom, I recalled when I had first come last year and we were visiting the kids that were enrolled to go to school.  Wilkyns made me talk to them because he likes to make me uncomfortable!  I was so discouraged though, because barely anyone understood me, so I just made him say everything after the first few houses.  This time, I was able to have a full conversation without any translators!!!  Who would have thought that God would use a country girl like me in a foreign country?!  I get made fun of for even my English when I’m in the US!  But even though I’m not fluent and my accent is quite lacking, God has allowed me to be able to talk to the people I love!  God is SO good!  Don’t ever say that you can’t do something, because I never imagined this for my life.  Keep seeking God’s will for your own life and you will be amazed!  Then, when something extraordinary happens, God gets all the credit! 

After waiting for Jony a little while, we decided we would return later in the van since it isn’t safe to be out on my bike after dark.  He still hadn’t been seen once we came back, so we sat there, in the dark, for about an hour, waiting.  During that time, I was surrounded by kids, some from the school and some not.  It could have been frustrating, but it was probably the best part of my day!  The kids were showing off their English.  I was showing off what little French I remember.  The girls were playing with my hair.  They were singing and clapping to songs in Creole.  We were just joking around and laughing.  Gosh I love these people!  It makes me wish I lived closer to the school so that I could hang out with my kids outside of the classroom.  Some of the girls that I can barely ever get to talk were talking my ear off that night!  I am so thankful for that time!  Jony finally came home and was excited because he’s been asking me to see our house since I first came!  Unfortunately, while in the capitol, no tests were done and they were told to return a later day.  He went back again recently and they told him which tests he needs to get done.  It includes a wide range of tests, so keep praying!

We got the opportunity to go camping at an amazingly little known place about an hour from where we live called Mata de Maiz.  We drove the van part way and then we carried everything down a super steep road…next time, I’m not packing so much lol!  But it was all worth it!  Jen and I pulled out all our country girl knowledge and got the fire started, made dinner over the fire, thanks to Pinterest, had some awesome Reese’s s’mores thanks to my thoughtful boyfriend, and everything else involved in camping!  Once everything was set up, we all put our bathing suits on and went swimming and jumping off rocks…when it was pitch black and the water is freezing, but it was so worth it!  We’ve returned two more times since then, with friends, and got to explore some more!  It is one of the prettiest places I’ve ever seen…I feel like I’m in a movie when we’re there.  I probably took 40 pictures of every different angle!  As we were driving along, we passed a ton of banana trees and coffee plants and I couldn’t help but think how weird it still is to realize where I’ve been the last two years...still seems unreal at times.

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Ears to Hear recently received a donation for fix-signal, solar powered radios to pass out at the radio station in St. Marc, Haiti.  To practice, Wolfgang, a friend who has a small plane, flew over the school and dropped a few radios.  Unfortunately, we didn’t tie our knots very well the first time and all the parachutes came disconnected from the radios…but those things seemed indestructible and still worked even after crashing to the ground.  The second time we did it, we fixed the knot problem and the parachutes worked!  Then the real fun began when people tried to steal them.  I had to talk one guy into giving me the one back…definitely surprised myself with my Spanish skills.  Another guy was tackled because he was trying to take one that a adventure camera had been attached too…always some type of excitement here!

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I’ve had the opportunity to do a little bit of traveling, which I’ve been hoping to do for awhile now.  This is a beautiful and extremely diverse country.  One of our adventures was possible when we were asked to be in a Dominican movie that will be appearing at film festivals around the world, and then released in theatres!  Don’t worry, you can ask for signature when I get back to the US!  For the filming, we drove about three hours away to Bahia de las Aguiles, a very secluded beach that we pretty much had to ourselves.  It wasn’t as pretty as we had hoped, but still an awesome experience!  And we got to ride a boat!

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We had another team from Mt. Vernon Church in Mississippi come down!  Part of the team hosted a dental clinic while the other half worked on digging and pouring the footers for the future medical clinic.  So many teeth were pulled, gigantic teeth!  I got to help translate some, but my main job was trying to calm frightened children.  Most of the patients were my students and it was so hard seeing them in pain, but I’m so glad that I could be there for them!   I could somewhat empathize with them…sort of.  I thought I was in pain when I got a bad toothache a few days before the team came…I couldn’t lay down without my head feeling like it was gonna explode.  I can’t imagine what some of these kids have been putting up with for so long. One boy had a tooth where the nerve was completely exposed. Others were just rotted away.  They’re definitely stronger than I am!

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We took about 45 people to San Rafael, a freshwater river and beach area, to celebrate a successful school year!  The kids were so excited.  Only seven of the kids had ever been there before.  On the van ride there, with 26 people in an eleven passenger van and the rest in a truck that’s supposed to hold 11, the kids were singing all kinds of songs, but the coolest thing was to hear them singing, “God is so Good.”  What an amazing experience and such a huge blessing!  First, some of the kids received awards for superior performance, behavior, and attendance.  At the river, the kids that didn’t know how to swim were hanging all over me.  At the end, we all washed our hair in the river!  Probably the cleanest some of them have been in a long time!  These kids never cease to make me smile!  I had such a great time!

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I have about a week left here in the DR.  Part of me thought this day would never come and the other part of me doesn’t want it to be here already.  Last year, I felt as if I was torn in two, like I wanted to be in both places.  At this time last year, I knew that I would be returning to the DR for a second year, so it made life a little easier.  I didn’t have to say goodbye, just see you later.  This year, I’ve put off reality for as long as possible by staying busy.  The realization is hitting hard that I may never see my kids and the people that have become like family again.  I know God has a plan in all of this, but I can’t help but feel that I’m tossing these people aside, especially when my kids tell me that they’re going to forget their English and that I have to be here to see different things in their lives…but I’m going to miss all of that, and I can’t make any promises because who knows what God has in store for me now.  How do I say goodbye to the people whose hands I’ve held when scared, who’ve cried with me, who’ve picked me flowers and colored me pictures, who’ve become my shadow, who have shared countless laughs, who have hovered together when thieves seem to come from every direction, who make fun of my Spanish, who’ve shared all those fabulous, awkward moments,  who have been a part of every part of my life for the last two years.  How do I say goodbye?  This coming week, I guess I’ll figure out that answer, so stayed tuned and please pray!

The school is still looking for English speakers to volunteer for the next school year, so if you are interested and have any questions, please contact me! 

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Sweet Beans, Hair Extension, and Machetes…never a dull moment!

These past few weeks were definitely busy!  I feel like I’ve literally been away from the house for 10-12 hours every day.  But God is faithful and we’ve accomplished SO, SO much! 

One day, we were in the middle of class and one of the girl’s moms showed up with a friend in a taxi.  They came to take the girl and send her to the capitol with the other lady to basically be a slave.  I’m assuming that she was probably going to receive money for this.  Thankfully, Wilkyns was there and told the mother that, that would only happen over his dead body.  The girl didn’t want to go and the mom finally said that since Wilkyns said no, she couldn’t go.  Unfortunately, this has already happened to one girl before Wilkyns found out about it.  A few emotions hit me right away.  At first, I was angry that a mother could do this to her own daughter.  Then I was sad that this girl doesn’t have an amazing mother like I do.  Third, I was happy because this girl was saved.  This girl still has a hope and a future because of what God is doing through the school!   Pray for situations like this that are happening all the time apparently.

A team from Mt. Vernon Church in Mississippi arrived Monday evening.  Some of the team helped us teach the kids.  I know my kids were excited to practice their English on new people!  The guys finished parging the kitchen so that we could prepare for the next team coming to install a water system.  One of my favorite parts of their trip was going with the team to deliver letters to the kids from their sponsors.  They loved the letters so much, especially when a picture was sent along…such little things mean so much to them…just another reminder of how blessed we really are.  It felt so good to know that other people love my kids and are praying for them, just like I am.  One of the ladies that came was a special education teacher.  She shared so much with Jen and I, so we’re hoping to change up a lot of things to see if we can get some better results.  I’m excited to start using some of her ideas!  We also worked on Wilkyns’ house for a day pouring columns.  One night, we went down to the new park and showed the kids version of the Jesus Film!  It was so nice to hang out with the team and just talk like friends.  This church has been an amazing blessing and I’m so thankful for their commitment and hard work! 

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The day after the first team returned to the US, another team came from the First Church of God in Defiance, Ohio to do more work at the school.  This team worked so hard and we got so much done!  We painted the kitchen inside and out. 

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A new pad was poured to put a water tank on.  Trenches were dug and pipe was laid to run the water line to the kitchen.  A water purification system was installed.

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Also, they brought a bunch of books to start a little library!

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And we finally have WALLS to separate our classrooms!  Although I am a little sad to be moving away from our “Little House on the Prairie” type school, I am SUPER excited for the kids to finally be able to hear me since pronunciation is pretty vital when learning a new language!  During the week, I helped paint some, but most of my time was spent covered in concrete, staring at a block wall.  I’m not really sure how I was deemed qualified, but I somehow had more experience laying block than most of the people working, so I was put to work making my own walls!  (Big thanks to Jim Ellison for teaching me how to lay block when we were building a church in Ecuador a few years ago, and of course to my dad for teaching me a little bit of everything it seems!)  It was so cool to be able to do that and know that soon I will be hanging my posters on my own walls!  It was funny to see the Dominicans reactions when they saw me working…most were shocked.  One guy said he was going to get me to help him build his house!  After this week, I was physically worn out but emotionally uplifted.  This team was so awesome…it reminded me of my first mission trip.

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We got word that Jen’s Dominican mom passed away after suffering from tuberculosis and its’ side effects for a long time.  Jen went to the house to be with the family and said it was one of the hardest things she’s been a part of.  The family was mourning as if they had no hope, even though they are Christians.  The next day, Jen, Kylie, and I went back to the house.  This was my first experience with death in this country.  They put the coffin in the kitchen of the woman’s house.  Everyone came to pay their respects and many people sat outside to show their support for the family.  The hard part was seeing the daughters crying out for their mother, waiting for her to get up out of the coffin.  They took the coffin across town to the graveyard and a bunch of people on motorcycles and a few vehicles followed behind very slowly.  As they went to lower the coffin into the hole that her own son dug, the daughters began to cry out once again, trying to open the coffin and clinging to it.  Then they started throwing rocks in to fill the grave right in front of everyone.  The daughters just kept repeating, “so many rocks.”  That was one of the hardest parts I think.  The experience was very different from American funerals.  It was way more drawn out and seemed harder on the family, especially since the coffin was kept in the house.  They didn’t have the chance to grieve privately either because people were with them 24/7.  Even though it was extremely hard, I am glad that I could experience this.  We have been very fortunate that we haven’t had to deal with this more.

Last week, Jen, Wilkyns, a bunch of kids, and I were busy cleaning out the school and painting the new walls.  Our hands were so sore and I’ve never been covered in more paint in my life, but they’re finally painted!  We started hanging a few things back up.  Still have a ways to go, but it’s functional for now! 

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I was getting just a little jealous of the snow that some of you guys were getting last week and then I remembered that my Aunt Janet and friend, Miss Diane, had sent me some instant snow, so we had a little taste of winter here in the Caribbean!  We even had a snowball fight with Ricardo! 

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Holidays are always interesting overseas…here you get sweet beans and hair extensions for Easter!  The beans are actually good and have cinnamon and carnation milk and a few other things.  They even make a sweet bean flavored ice cream!  And then even the little girls had hair extensions and fancy braids and beads.  I didn’t recognize a few of my girls at school!

Something else I had to laugh at was the three machetes sitting in the corners of the classrooms!  Loving that we don’t have the same regulations and restrictions that I had in the US!

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Hard to believe that it’s April already. I probably only have a little over two months left here…time has really flown by fast. We still have a lot of work to do in that time…can’t wait to see how much the kids improve at school! Keep praying for everything!  Currently, we are praying for more people to help teach English at the school next year.  We’re asking for a 9 month commitment to make things easier on the kids and the other teachers.  Also you must be self-supporting.  You will have opportunities to experience a variety of mission opportunities including a surfers outreach, youth groups, radio station, evangelism, medical, possible trips to Haiti, etc.  If you or someone you know is interested, please contact me for more information or if you have questions!  This has been an amazing experience for me and God definitely stretched me through it all.   Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone, you won’t regret it!

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